
Allah says in the Holy Qur'an :
12. We bestowed (in the past) wisdom on Luqman: "Show (thy) gratitude to Allah." any who is (so) grateful does so to the profit of His own soul: but if any is ungrateful, Verily Allah is free of all wants, worthy of all praise.
13. Behold, Luqman said to His son by way of instruction: "O My son! join not In worship (others) with Allah. for false worship is indeed the highest wrong-doing."
14. And we have enjoined on man (to be good) to His parents: In travail upon travail did His mother bear him, and In years twain was His weaning: (hear the Command), "Show gratitude to me and to Thy parents: to me is (thy final) Goal.
15. "But if They strive to make Thee join In worship with me things of which Thou hast no knowledge, obey them not; yet bear them company In This life with justice (and consideration), and follow the way of those who turn to me (in love): In the end the return of you all is to me, and I will Tell you the truth (and meaning) of all that ye did."
16. "O My son!" (said Luqman), "If there be (but) the weight of a mustard-seed and it were (hidden) In a rock, or (anywhere) In the heavens or on earth, Allah will bring it forth: for Allah understands the finest mysteries, (and) is well-acquainted (with them).
17. "O My son! establish regular prayer, enjoin what is just, and forbid what is wrong: and bear with patient constancy whatever betide thee; for This is Firmness (of purpose) In (the conduct of) affairs.
18. "And swell not Thy cheek (for pride) at men, nor walk In insolence through the earth; for Allah loveth not any arrogant boaster.
19. "And be moderate In Thy pace, and lower Thy voice; for the harshest of sounds without doubt is the braying of the ass."
These are the advice given by Luqman al Hakim-the wise man whose name is mentioned in the Holy Qur’an. Personally, I think such advice is vital to be pondered upon not only for the sons or daughters, but even to the parents themselves. Be thankful if you parents do give the same advice like Luqman. Yet, even if they do not, the advice itself provides you such a potent and powerful message how to deal with them. Among the gist that you may find in the verse are :
1) Be grateful to Allah. By being grateful to your Creator, it’s actually benefiting yourself.
2) Do not associate Allah with others because it is biggest sin.
3) Be good to your parents since they have sacrificed a lot especially to your mother. As narrated in one of the hadiths of our beloved prophet Muhammad(Peace be upon him) :
A man came to the Prophet Muhammad and said;
“O Allah’s Apostle! Who is most entitled to be treated best by me? “
The Prophet said, “Your mother.”
The man further asked,”Who is next?”
The Prophet replied, “Your mother.”
The man asked for the fourth time, “Who is next?”
The prophet said, “Your father.”

4) Again, be grateful to Allah and also your parents. In fact, Allah is your final goal.
5)One must honor and serve one’s non believing parents and treat them with kindness, but in matters of belief and worship, one must follow in the footsteps of those who have made submission to God(One must refuse obedience to one’s parents if they ask one to set up copartners with God).
6) God will bring forth every single act performed by every single human being-even if that action is of the weight of a mustard seed, which is hidden in a rock or anywhere else in the heavens and the earth-and will recompense that act.
7) To establish prayer, To command good and forbid evil (require patience and steadfastness in the face of hardship).
8) Do not be wry faced with people, be gentle in speech and humble in gait (manner of walking). So that it would not resemble an arrogant booster.




